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3 Things That Can Save You When You Don’t Know What To Say
You are dating a beautiful but a shy girl or one that is not a talkie. You have already talked about your hobbies, your families and your jobs and nothing else come into your mind and she is not really helping you. 1. Compliment Her The fact is most people are shy about meeting new people. I used to be enormously shy. But when you think about it, shyness is merely a fear that others won't like you, or that you may be rejected in some way. It's natural for us to desire acceptance. So try to make her know that you like her by making a compliment. But find something that you really find attractive about her, about her lifestyle or her personality. She will become more confident and more open to share her believes and her shyness won’t be a problem for a fluid conversation. 2. Asking open questions How you ask questions is very important in establishing a basis for an effective communication. Effective questions open the door to knowledge and understanding. The art of questioning lies in knowing which questions to ask when. My favorites questions are "why" and "how" questions. You can use these frequently without being annoying. She will feel that you are interested in what she is telling you and will develop her answers. Therefore, you should think carefully before speaking and taking up subjects that might be repugnant to her. Take a look around. What's going on around you? At this point, the key is to find a topic, from which you can start a decent and light conversation. 3. Listen, listen, and listen Usually when the woman starts talking about her favorite subjects (feelings, family, relationships, friends and her work) many men lose interest or bring the conversation back to themselves.…
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Online Chat Room: Dos And Don’ts
Etiquette is important in any discourse whether it be online or offline and gives people guidelines of how to properly conduct themselves during discourse. On the Internet there are many chat room communities that provide a venue where individuals from all walks of life can engage in a discussion regarding topics that are amendable to everyone. Many chat rooms have set rules and guidelines that users are expected to follow. These rules and guidelines are imposed to ensure that no member is offended during the discussion. Likewise, maintaining proper etiquette when chatting ensures an enjoyable chatting experience. 1. Refrain from giving out vital personal information about yourself such as your home address, telephone number, work address/telephone or the location of your office. For teenagers or students do not give out personal information for your parents or your own information, such as the name and location of your school or your daily schedule. Giving this kind of information out exposes your and your family to danger. 2. Never ever get together with someone you just met online. Bring a friend or a family member with you. Never, ever meet them alone. Its better to be safe than to be sorry afterwards if things got wrong. If you do meet, be sure to do so in a very public place for added safety. 3. Don’t send your picture or anything else without first checking the background of the person to whom you’re sending the photos. Use instinct and good judgment. If you feel like uncomfortable and uncertain whether you should send the photo or not, the best decision is not to send. Try asking for his or her photo instead and try to learn more about the background of the person. 4. Avoid responding to mean messages or any message that makes…
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