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Increase Your Chances of Getting Asked Out
He'll Scratch Your Back If You Scratch His. That is a fundamental rule that all good salespeople know. If you can get a consumer to agree to a small purchase or even to accept something for free then they are much more likely to buy. This is true in relationships, as well. If you can get a man to accept a free drink, a free cup of coffee or even a free ticket to his favorite game, he is much more likely to agree to: you joining him a conversation a possible date There is this slight feeling of obligation plus he will think you are really sweet for offering. Most men are used to doing the hard work of coming up with a witty line. If you make the asking out process easier they will be eternally grateful. My first serious boyfriend saw that I had dropped some books on the way home from the bookstore. He offered to carry them home for me. This elevated him to hero status in my book and made it much harder to turn him down for a date. Perhaps you could try this with a man in a bookstore who has books and a cup of coffee to carry. Offer to help him bring his things to the table. He just may let you join him.
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Flirting Tips for Shy Girls: Simple Ways to Flirt with Any Guy
Ever the wallflower when it comes to parties and social gatherings? Don't you just wish you could actually make any guy fall head over heels for you? Fortunately, it's not too late to change yourself as long as you learn a few flirting tips for shy girls. These flirting tips for shy girls will help you become a more empowered woman. All you need is a little push in the right direction and you'll no longer have to spend the night sulking miserably in one corner. Flirting Tips for Shy Girls # 1: Start Slow It's best to begin with baby steps. Don't force yourself to act like a diva on your next night out. You might end up embarrassing yourself. Start with perfecting your smile first. If you're assigned to a table, try smiling at those sitting next to you. Maintain eye contact and hold your smile a little longer for the guy you're interested in. Don't panic if they don't reciprocate the same level of interest you're giving. You'd be surprised to know that most of them are just as shy as you are. Flirting Tips for Shy Girls # 2: Make Yourself Approachable Smiling also makes you look more approachable to guys in general. If you find it difficult to make the first move, your dazzling smile will handle that situation for you. Don't just stand in a corner either. If there is a buffet table, help yourself to a few portions. The buffet table is always a great place to start conversations. When a guy falls in line behind you, why not ask him about the catering service, such as "Have you tried the punch yet? I heard it's really delicious!" Guys are really into girls who can not only initiate a conversation but hold one…
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Successful Dating Begins With Successful Flirting
Why are some people born natural flirts and others couldn't charm the backside of a bus if their life depended on it? The power of flirting goes beyond attracting the opposite sex. Master the art of flirting and you also become a friend magnet and can use your skills to influence business relationships. "You've either got it or you haven't!" is often what you will hear men saying when they boast about their conquests. Women, on the other hand, are more coy when talking about a man they have met. So as not to appear full of herself, she will often say to her friends "Oooh, I don't think he likes me, what do you think?" If she is a successful flirt, however, she will be thinking along the same lines of a man, "Yeah, he was putty in my hands!" Flirting is an art requiring confidence without being OTT. A successful flirt knows how to get the balance just right; too much and there is a real danger you will be labelled as "slimy" (if you're a man) and "tarty" (if you're a woman). If flirting doesn't come naturally to you, you can learn to flirt by building your confidence, believing in yourself and interacting with other people. Here are some basic flirting tips which can be practised at work and/or on a social scene. 1. Have Fun! First and foremost flirting is fun! Whether you are the flirter or the flirtee it makes both parties smile (on the inside as well as the outside!). Don't take it seriously; be playful, be light-hearted, be infectious! 2. Ooze Confidence The best flirts have a positive outlook on life and are happy with themselves. To successfully flirt you need to feel good about yourself before you are able to transmit this…
