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Ten Tips on How to Get That Guy
1. Show the Guy That You Are Vulnerable Men need to feel needed, yes it may be from the dinosaurs but it does still apply. I do not mean that you have to be weak, give in to whatever he wants, and put up with any way he treats you I am not suggesting that. Many men like strong women, but strong women who put out that they do not need a guy often end up alone. It is fine to be strong but try and temper it with "ok here is a situation where I can be vulnerable." Men have a strong protective instinct, though they may rarely show it. 2. Let The Guy Think That He Is Doing The Hunting Men love the thrill of the chase, it is in their genetic makeup, it is definately a male thing. Play a little secretive and hard to get, and men will flock like bees to honey. That means having a sense of your own worth, men hate women who are clingy. They are not props, they hate boosting a womens ego all the time. In fact men want a real balanced person. Make him feel he wants to make the first move and do the chasing. Women learn to manipulate men at a very early age. By the age of five most girls have learnt how to wrap their father around there little finger. 3. "Let The Guy Think That He Is Mr Right Rather Than Mr Right Now!" Stroke their egos, they are not a ticket to go out and pay all the time, let them know that you really value them as a person. 4. Laugh At His Jokes This is imperative that a man feels he is funny and witty and is an extension of three,…
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Increase Your Chances of Getting Asked Out
He'll Scratch Your Back If You Scratch His. That is a fundamental rule that all good salespeople know. If you can get a consumer to agree to a small purchase or even to accept something for free then they are much more likely to buy. This is true in relationships, as well. If you can get a man to accept a free drink, a free cup of coffee or even a free ticket to his favorite game, he is much more likely to agree to: you joining him a conversation a possible date There is this slight feeling of obligation plus he will think you are really sweet for offering. Most men are used to doing the hard work of coming up with a witty line. If you make the asking out process easier they will be eternally grateful. My first serious boyfriend saw that I had dropped some books on the way home from the bookstore. He offered to carry them home for me. This elevated him to hero status in my book and made it much harder to turn him down for a date. Perhaps you could try this with a man in a bookstore who has books and a cup of coffee to carry. Offer to help him bring his things to the table. He just may let you join him.
