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Ten Tips on How to Get That Guy
1. Show the Guy That You Are Vulnerable Men need to feel needed, yes it may be from the dinosaurs but it does still apply. I do not mean that you have to be weak, give in to whatever he wants, and put up with any way he treats you I am not suggesting that. Many men like strong women, but strong women who put out that they do not need a guy often end up alone. It is fine to be strong but try and temper it with "ok here is a situation where I can be vulnerable." Men have a strong protective instinct, though they may rarely show it. 2. Let The Guy Think That He Is Doing The Hunting Men love the thrill of the chase, it is in their genetic makeup, it is definately a male thing. Play a little secretive and hard to get, and men will flock like bees to honey. That means having a sense of your own worth, men hate women who are clingy. They are not props, they hate boosting a womens ego all the time. In fact men want a real balanced person. Make him feel he wants to make the first move and do the chasing. Women learn to manipulate men at a very early age. By the age of five most girls have learnt how to wrap their father around there little finger. 3. "Let The Guy Think That He Is Mr Right Rather Than Mr Right Now!" Stroke their egos, they are not a ticket to go out and pay all the time, let them know that you really value them as a person. 4. Laugh At His Jokes This is imperative that a man feels he is funny and witty and is an extension of three,…
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Increase Your Chances of Getting Asked Out
He'll Scratch Your Back If You Scratch His. That is a fundamental rule that all good salespeople know. If you can get a consumer to agree to a small purchase or even to accept something for free then they are much more likely to buy. This is true in relationships, as well. If you can get a man to accept a free drink, a free cup of coffee or even a free ticket to his favorite game, he is much more likely to agree to: you joining him a conversation a possible date There is this slight feeling of obligation plus he will think you are really sweet for offering. Most men are used to doing the hard work of coming up with a witty line. If you make the asking out process easier they will be eternally grateful. My first serious boyfriend saw that I had dropped some books on the way home from the bookstore. He offered to carry them home for me. This elevated him to hero status in my book and made it much harder to turn him down for a date. Perhaps you could try this with a man in a bookstore who has books and a cup of coffee to carry. Offer to help him bring his things to the table. He just may let you join him.
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Reading a Man’s Body Language to Know If He Likes You
Don't you just wish you can read what men are thinking sometimes? Unless you're in a movie or a comedy sitcom, that is very unlikely. But if you know how to decipher male body language flirting signs, who needs ESP? There is nothing complicated about reading body language, and interpreting male body language flirting signs is quite easy. For starters, it is the same for almost all men. And second, a lot of them don't even realize that they're sending out these signals, thus giving you the upper hand! Male Body Language Flirting Sign # 1: To Preen Or Not To Preen Ever notice how some guys tend to adjust their ties or smooth over their hair before approaching you? Well, that's not them being vain or obsessive-compulsive. That's just their way of trying to show off their masculinity to you. Instead of being turned off, be flattered that some guy is putting his best foot forward for you! Male Body Language Flirting Sign # 2: Soft And Subtle Touches A singular touch can be a powerful thing. When a guy touches your fingers or brushes against your elbow subtly, this is a sign that the guy is most definitely interested in you. If, however, he touches you in a place less appropriate, feel free to leave the loser and move on to better prospects. Male Body Language Flirting Sign # 3: Smiling Face If a guy smiles, then you already know that he is someone good natured and probably easy to get along with. If a guy smiles at you more than once, then chances are that this man is very interested in you, especially if he maintains eye contact. If you smile back, then be ready to be approached in five minutes. As you can see, reading male…
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