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Things to Avoid at Your First Date
Finally, after a year of mending a broken heart, you come out of your shell and announce to your friends that you are ready to meet other people. However, after several years of having a steady date, you find yourself feeling eerie going back to dating. It’s like you’re clueless. You can’t recall what your first date like with your ex- partner (or you intend not to recall). And you really want to make it right this time. At the midst of your apprehension, your friend calls you and excitedly announced to you that she got you a date. She talks nonstop about how gorgeous this guy is and went on to endless list of this guy’s achievement and best features. Meanwhile, your thoughts had drifted to your many anxieties on having your first date ever after a major break-up. You are afraid that you might screw it up. That the guy may not be as good as your former. That you will be tongue-tied the entire time you are together. Perhaps, you may never have any thing to say to him. That you might become a lousy date. Or you are never really be prepared on going back to the dating game yet. Don’t fret. You are not alone. Many have gone through the jitters too. And it is usual. Don’t be too hard on yourself by backing out just because you fell like you can’t make it. It’s just a matter of knowing what to avoid to make your date click. Here are the EIGHT COMMANDMENTS OF DATING to the rescue. 1. Thou shall not be late Do all the necessary preparations ahead of time. I suggest that a night before the big day, choose your outfit already. So, that you won’t hurry dressing up for your date.…
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Successful Dating: How to Date and How Not to Date
If you are single, you will know how difficult it is to find advice about dating and being single. We'd all love to meet our perfect soul mate. So often so-called dating experts (who are usually married) astound us with obvious wisdom but I am sure you get the feeling their point of view isn't always too realistic. You know, being single can be a tough and lonely whatever your age, and every now and again it would be good to get some real inspiration from other single people. If you are new to the dating scene, a regular or are just simply wanting to meet someone new there should always be time for top dating tips, advice, information and things to consider. The truth is there are no magic formulas or potions and no cunning ways of trapping Mr or Miss right. But there are some valid facts that you should take into consideration along the way. 1. Make sure you are really ready to enter the dating game. Have some idea about what it is you are hoping to achieve. Also be prepared for some disappointments along the way, however don't let this affect the bigger picture. 2. Get your image right, don't go over the top, you still want to look like yourself. Don't try too hard either, but remember people do appreciate other peoples appearances. 3. Think about your dating goals and timescales. Be honest to yourself, if you see yourself married in two years, then approach dating accordingly. If you are more laid back about dating, then be honest with those you may date. 4. Be confident. Do all those little things that will boost your confidence levels. Don't talk about adult matters or sex toys on your first date. The other person will respect…
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What Attracts Women
Men are basically clueless to whatever it is that attracts women. In fact, some reports contend that women are so hard to comprehend that even if men master how to decode their body language, still, they just could not understand women, in one way or another. According to some studies, 3 out of 10 men are can attest that they really understand women. The remaining 7, you ask? They are out in the haystack finding needles. This means that almost 70% of the men population in the U.S. contends that whatever they do, they still could not figure out how to understand women. For this reason, men are having a hard time to figure out what attract women sexually and romantically in a relationship. 6 out of ten men attest that women are so unpredictable that what they thought women are attracted to, they suddenly realize in the end that it is not the right things after all. So for those who are still confused, dazed, and perplexed on what attracts women, here is a list that could serve as your guide if you want to know how to catch your girl's attention: 1. Women are not attracted to nice guys There are instances wherein some guys thought that in order to attract women, they must be good looking, smells really good, dress really good, and projects a goody-two-shoes image. What these guys do not know is that, in reality, women are more attracted to men who project "bad-boy" image rather than those who are nice. This is because most women find nice guys relatively boring and uninteresting as compared to those who are funny and confident about themselves. Surveys show that 30% of women value personality most. Though, this does not necessarily mean that women prefer nice personalities. What…
